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When Is it Time for Don Cherry´s Father?
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Making the tough decisions

Category: Clear Vision Blog

March 8th, 2012
When is it time to make a tough decision? How do we do that with kindness and firmness? What is we are afraid of making the wrong decision or of hurting someone including ourselves?

How do we access that deep inner strength?

Read on and find out....
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Would you Rather Be Right or Happy?
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A Piranha´s teeth.....this is us when we want to be right.

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October 1st, 2012
When I want to be right about what I am believing about another, I am actually deciding against my own happiness. This can create so much tension and fear that the whole relationship can disintegrate. This would be exactly what I DO NOT want to happen. It is worth stopping and asking myself what do I want to be right about? What is so important anyway? If the answer is the person in front of you, then a more diplomatic response may be the order of the day....
A Bias for Trust
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A Rainbow in Peru

Category: Clear Vision Blog

November 1st, 2012
Entering onto a relationship with suspicion and fear can damage the relationship beyond repair. The fear actually spreads like wildfire and both people can end up afraid and not knowing how to make a positive change.

Instead, I can know that everyone is actually the same as me. We all want to be loved and supported. Perhaps I will find that by offering this up this trust I will receive it for myself.

We are always discovering what we expect to find.
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Should we avoid difficult people?
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Category: Clear Vision Blog

February 7th, 2013
This is a beautiful demonstration of how we can treat people who are difficult and who we may want to ostracize because of their behaviour. Rejection is painful. It feels horrible to be intentionally left out or pushed out of a group. Most of us have had that experience at some time.

How different would it have been to have been embraced instead of rejected? How would it have felt for both the group as well as the person involved? When I help one person, I help everyone.
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What about this anger?
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The Way Past Anger

Category: Clear Vision Blog

January 4th, 2015
Where there is anger, there is always pain underneath.
~Eckhart Tolle
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